“Fun being a girl, isn’t it?” [Sean from Burlesque.] One line and it explains it all. Well... Literally and figuratively... there are lots of things you can say about being a girl... There are good and bad ones but sometimes you’ll think that if you were one, you’ll just wish that you’re a boy. One thing that intensifies that is when a girl tends to like a guy who doesn’t seem to care at all. As a girl you just cannot tell a guy how you feel about him especially here in the Philippines because of the saying of the oldies: “hindi dapat ikaw ang mauna kasi babae ka”. Sabi naman ng iba, “freakin’ gosh! Its year 2011 for goodness’ sake and somehow its okay that the girl will court a guy!”, but still in this society, it’s not that acceptable and isa pa, it’s in the guy’s ego na manligaw. According to one book I’ve read which was written by the famous author Bo Sanchez, boys are born hunters and literally catch their prey but if the prey is the one who’s coming over the hunter seems to find another because every prey is a challenge for them, the challenging, the better. And if explained in the layman’s term...if the opposite sex is the one that will chase them, the very first instinct of the guy is not to entertain that girl and look for another who is way challenging because in some guy’s perspective, the challenging the girl may be, the more they’ll take care of it, But then once again, a girl is being ignored...poor little girl, ang tanging kasalanan naman niya ay nainlove sya but then again... she just shouldn’t express it. Oh its really hard to be a girl... bakit? Kasi hindi pwede ganito... hindi pwede ganun? Some girls pag nainlove they would give everything as in EVERYTHING including their virginity just to satisfy their dream boy but girl, that will just make you less of a person.
Somehow, I believe that there are ways naman para macaught ng mga girls ang attention ng guy na gusto niya by being herself, loving who she really is, and by fixing herself like overhaul but it doesn’t have to be expensive eh... basta girls... take care of yourself kasi most of the guys naman don’t really look outside... most of the times... its what in the inside that matters, right? Its just a matter of being a little somehow picky sa lalaki kasi you only love once and it has to be right as in everything has to be in good faith cause if its not...Oh girl, you’re in a great trouble.
Well, anyways, let’s all be cautious and careful in choosing the one we’re going to love kasi in the end... tayo ang magbebenefit or magsusuffer ng decision we’ve made. Oo, sabi ng iba... if you choose to love that person... you should to love all the part of that person... the good, the bad and the ugly. Accept him/her for being who he/she is and who he/she isn’t. Its a great sacrifice isn’t it? Well, better endure that than to live alone and die without experiencing everything. That makes life colourful. Experiencing everything. The joy, the pain, the sorrow, the excitement and the fun. If you won’t be able to experience all of that... you’ll be missing something and you won’t live a full life if you keep on playing on just the safe side.
Some would say about Love... Love is blind, I say its not love that’s blind... its the person who’s being blind. Love hurts, I say... its not love that hurts you... its the person who caused you pain is the one who hurts you. Don’t blame everything on love because love in nature is good. According to Nikki Gil when I’ve watched one of the episode of Mellow Myx, she mentioned that Love was made not to hurt anyone but to ease the pain, if you’re hurting, don’t blame Love cause its not the fault of Love. Its the person’s.
Love plus commitment equals relationship. In committing yourself into a relationship, Love ain’t just enough. It includes lots of important things like: Understanding... a wide one. Patience...a longer one. Time...spontaneous but not deranged. Studying each other’s behaviour and how to react in every break out to be able to prevent it from repeating all over. Meeting half way so that fight will be prevented. Being a friend to each other. Being more than lovers but partners in every occasion and situation. Give and Take relationship. And a lot of prayers. And a lot more.
I can’t even add anything more because I haven’t felt that. I haven’t entered into any so I guess I can add more if I’ll be able to have one. That is definitely an exciting adventure to look forward to. Hope it will happen sooner than I expected. All I need to do is befriend, know him more than he knows himself and pray that he’ll respond to the love I will share.
Some says they are waiting for the right person to come but I say... I will be the right person to come in his life and I hope he will notice that. That I am the answer to his prayers.
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